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Post by 2fw8212a on May 16, 2018 18:17:12 GMT -5
Social interaction is difficult because you have trouble drawing attention to yourself? Not only that, I do not know what to say to unknown people... It is hard to explain, it is just difficult. I have difficult in sharing details of my life to people.
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Post by John on May 16, 2018 18:35:18 GMT -5
Social interaction is difficult because you have trouble drawing attention to yourself? Not only that, I do not know what to say to unknown people... It is hard to explain, it is just difficult. I have difficult in sharing details of my life to people. You are not alone. There are a lot of people in your position!
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Post by PG4Him on May 16, 2018 20:55:42 GMT -5
Face-to-face conversation is a skill. No one is born with it. Most of us learn through practice in childhood, but some of us need a little more time. Nothing wrong with that. There are many social skills I didn’t quite perfect with my peers.
It’s okay to tell people you have trouble in that area. You can set up conversations in ways that make it easier. Anyone who is meant to be your friend will understand. I have social boundaries even now that my friends respect. Friends can help you practice.
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Post by 2fw8212a on May 16, 2018 21:03:59 GMT -5
Anyone who is meant to be your friend will understand. I have social boundaries even now that my friends respect. Friends can help you practice. I need a friend. Please, pray for me if you can! God bless you in Jesus' name!
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Post by frienduff on May 16, 2018 23:24:32 GMT -5
Letters . please don't be worried . Stay planted in the LORD . some of the prophets of old felt isolated too. one even cries that all are against him and rear up alters to baal and etc . God reminded him , I have reserved seven thousand men who have not bowed the knee to baal. Don't be in a hurry to have just more social interactions . Do not worry . Jesus was often alone , and folks thought he was beside himself at times . Yes we do gather and should . But if you are worried about not having anything to say , then don't worry . God will always give you a mouth to speak when it is time to do so. You have greatly enoucraged me with the exhortations . So focus on that , and the rest comes as needed in Gods time . you loved letters , it would be so sad if you were not around to encourage us . Folks more than ever needed to hear your exhortations at worthy and here as well.
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Post by frienduff on May 16, 2018 23:27:06 GMT -5
And I will pray a godly person will come to be your friend , so you can have fellowship and pray together . So don't worry or over think on it .
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Post by John on May 17, 2018 10:27:34 GMT -5
Also know that you have friends here, and remember there are real people behind usernames.
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Post by ladypeartree on May 18, 2018 3:34:21 GMT -5
Have you ever had a diagnosis of Asperger's ? It is a form of social difficulty that often affects very intelligent people ( I used to teach autistic children and this sounds sooo familiar ) Sometimes having a " label " can help others to understand that you are not being deliberately awkward just being YOU as God has made you and can help them to help you too am praying for you and if you ever want to have a conversation where you will not be judged or just want someone to lend a shoulder to rest on please feel free to message me xxxxxx
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Post by 2fw8212a on May 18, 2018 9:42:14 GMT -5
Have you ever had a diagnosis of Asperger's ? No.
Since my 12 years, if I remember correctly, I have been suspicious about it.
And apparently, the enemy always used this information to sow discouraging words in my mind.
Now, I just believe that it is just lack of faith. A thing that I am still fighting to overcome in my life.
And thanks to God I have been achieving considerable progress.
And no, my family does not know about it; some may have their opinions, specially those who are wise in worldly wisdom.
But most just believe that I lack faith (i.e. shy).if you ever want to have a conversation where you will not be judged or just want someone to lend a shoulder to rest on please feel free to message me xxxxxx Thank you!
God bless you in Jesus' name!
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