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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 3, 2020 10:28:06 GMT -5
Beau Jangles from Worthy is in trouble.
Here is his prayer request.
Hello brother and sisters,
Sorry once again, I don't mean to override someone else's requests here, but I'm in real trouble in the nursing facility. Trying to be very brief here. Administration coinciding with certain evil LVN's and CNA's here, many of these women are lesbian, and trumping up false charges and allegations basically saying I'm aggressive and overbearing. In other words, hostile. Me? A peace loving former Hippie? Well, that's news to me. Now they're trying to get rid of me.
I got angry at our Social Services Director over an issue of joking around with a few of the nursing staff here, and one or two of them took it seriously, because sometimes my sense of humor is dead-pan. So, they apparently didn't get it. (sigh) Anway, she started needling me about it, and never gave me a chance to tell my side of the story, and I got righteously ticked off at her. Blew up in anger and frustration, and she said she's call the cops and have me arrested!
Are you kidding me? I couldn't believe the entire ordeal! I stomped out of her office and went immediately to our Director of Nursing. She's from India and pretty cool, I think for a Hindu person, and told her the story. She tried to calm me down, because they don't want patients here to get overwrought about stuff, and said not to be overly concerned about the issue. Well, I take that as a real threat to me personally speaking, if you know what I mean.
That was last Friday afternoon. Monday morning, I had a meeting with our head of administration. Told him about my little attempt at kidding around with the staff members, and realized it was taken out of what was meant as some humor. The ones that aren't deadly serious around here joke around all the time. It's a way of breaking the horrible thing concerning most people who come her are obviously never going to leave here in a living state of being.
He seemed to be understanding and all, but said this. "You don't really belong here, because you're fully cognizant of your mental faculties." Well, sure I am. A good many of you know my situation and attempts to get my home back to live in. Anyway, I told him my doctor is trying to help about that. But what about this threat to have me arrested and all that?That's not right to treat me like this. I've got PTSD and stuff like that throws me into turmoil.
So, the deal is this. They're trying to build up a case against me to get me booted out of here. Period. My lawyer only oversees my financial situation and Medicare/MediCal status and that's it. Obviously I need an attorney or someone who can say, "No, you can't do that." But I can't afford one, or get one pro bono, or a paralegal for that matter, and I don't know what to do. The State protects itself, so they're obviously no help at all, and I have nowhere to turn.
Please pray for me,
David/BeauJangles
Edited 42 minutes ago by BeauJangles
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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 3, 2020 10:30:31 GMT -5
Beau Jangles from Worthy is in trouble. Here is his prayer request. Hello brother and sisters, Sorry once again, I don't mean to override someone else's requests here, but I'm in real trouble in the nursing facility. Trying to be very brief here. Administration coinciding with certain evil LVN's and CNA's here, many of these women are lesbian, and trumping up false charges and allegations basically saying I'm aggressive and overbearing. In other words, hostile. Me? A peace loving former Hippie? Well, that's news to me. Now they're trying to get rid of me. I got angry at our Social Services Director over an issue of joking around with a few of the nursing staff here, and one or two of them took it seriously, because sometimes my sense of humor is dead-pan. So, they apparently didn't get it. (sigh) Anway, she started needling me about it, and never gave me a chance to tell my side of the story, and I got righteously ticked off at her. Blew up in anger and frustration, and she said she's call the cops and have me arrested! Are you kidding me? I couldn't believe the entire ordeal! I stomped out of her office and went immediately to our Director of Nursing. She's from India and pretty cool, I think for a Hindu person, and told her the story. She tried to calm me down, because they don't want patients here to get overwrought about stuff, and said not to be overly concerned about the issue. Well, I take that as a real threat to me personally speaking, if you know what I mean. That was last Friday afternoon. Monday morning, I had a meeting with our head of administration. Told him about my little attempt at kidding around with the staff members, and realized it was taken out of what was meant as some humor. The ones that aren't deadly serious around here joke around all the time. It's a way of breaking the horrible thing concerning most people who come her are obviously never going to leave here in a living state of being. He seemed to be understanding and all, but said this. "You don't really belong here, because you're fully cognizant of your mental faculties." Well, sure I am. A good many of you know my situation and attempts to get my home back to live in. Anyway, I told him my doctor is trying to help about that. But what about this threat to have me arrested and all that?That's not right to treat me like this. I've got PTSD and stuff like that throws me into turmoil. So, the deal is this. They're trying to build up a case against me to get me booted out of here. Period. My lawyer only oversees my financial situation and Medicare/MediCal status and that's it. Obviously I need an attorney or someone who can say, "No, you can't do that." But I can't afford one, or get one pro bono, or a paralegal for that matter, and I don't know what to do. The State protects itself, so they're obviously no help at all, and I have nowhere to turn. Please pray for me, David/BeauJangles Edited 42 minutes ago by BeauJangles John 777 Cletus watchful solid ohhello frienduff Giller Les
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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 3, 2020 10:33:48 GMT -5
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Post by ohhello on Mar 3, 2020 11:09:42 GMT -5
Hi Naomi,
Well done in sharing this. He has been through so much and is still going through it. I replied to him that I will carry on praying. God bless you Naomi for be willing to set up funding for him, to get a lawyer. I will pray this takes off and he gets the help he desperately needs. We will keep on praying for him.
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Post by Cletus on Mar 3, 2020 12:49:56 GMT -5
he needs to report this to the state ombudsman. the state will get them lined out. file a complaint. if his rights are being violated they will come down hard on that. and residents in nursing facilities have lots of rights. the facility can be fined or worse. also when nursing facilities are cited those tags go on the admins license.
this can go away in one phone call. they dont want state coming down on them. even if they kick him out the state can make them take him back. its very important to know who your calling... the state or a corporate compliance number. the latter is a joke. the state ombudsmans gets a call saying my rights are being violated they will show up in 24hrs and do an investigation.
just what i read... he is being abused by the nurses.
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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 3, 2020 14:15:38 GMT -5
he needs to report this to the state ombudsman. the state will get them lined out. file a complaint. if his rights are being violated they will come down hard on that. and residents in nursing facilities have lots of rights. the facility can be fined or worse. also when nursing facilities are cited those tags go on the admins license. this can go away in one phone call. they dont want state coming down on them. even if they kick him out the state can make them take him back. its very important to know who your calling... the state or a corporate compliance number. the latter is a joke. the state ombudsmans gets a call saying my rights are being violated they will show up in 24hrs and do an investigation. just what i read... he is being abused by the nurses. I'll pass this on.
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Post by frienduff on Mar 3, 2020 14:26:59 GMT -5
Lets be praying for beau . but let me make a point . This is why we ought to guard that tongue . jokes and such have no need in our lives . I honestly think beau did this , in innocence . and I think they just don't like that man . But we do need to guard that tongue . even I do . facts are facts . We cant just joke around . Now with all that being said , I have no doubts beau is being done big time wrong . So lets pray for him . lets really pray for him . but please lets guard our tongues too .
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Post by solid on Mar 3, 2020 17:01:58 GMT -5
Beau Jangles from Worthy is in trouble. Here is his prayer request. Hello brother and sisters, Sorry once again, I don't mean to override someone else's requests here, but I'm in real trouble in the nursing facility. Trying to be very brief here. Administration coinciding with certain evil LVN's and CNA's here, many of these women are lesbian, and trumping up false charges and allegations basically saying I'm aggressive and overbearing. In other words, hostile. Me? A peace loving former Hippie? Well, that's news to me. Now they're trying to get rid of me. I got angry at our Social Services Director over an issue of joking around with a few of the nursing staff here, and one or two of them took it seriously, because sometimes my sense of humor is dead-pan. So, they apparently didn't get it. (sigh) Anway, she started needling me about it, and never gave me a chance to tell my side of the story, and I got righteously ticked off at her. Blew up in anger and frustration, and she said she's call the cops and have me arrested! Are you kidding me? I couldn't believe the entire ordeal! I stomped out of her office and went immediately to our Director of Nursing. She's from India and pretty cool, I think for a Hindu person, and told her the story. She tried to calm me down, because they don't want patients here to get overwrought about stuff, and said not to be overly concerned about the issue. Well, I take that as a real threat to me personally speaking, if you know what I mean. That was last Friday afternoon. Monday morning, I had a meeting with our head of administration. Told him about my little attempt at kidding around with the staff members, and realized it was taken out of what was meant as some humor. The ones that aren't deadly serious around here joke around all the time. It's a way of breaking the horrible thing concerning most people who come her are obviously never going to leave here in a living state of being. He seemed to be understanding and all, but said this. "You don't really belong here, because you're fully cognizant of your mental faculties." Well, sure I am. A good many of you know my situation and attempts to get my home back to live in. Anyway, I told him my doctor is trying to help about that. But what about this threat to have me arrested and all that?That's not right to treat me like this. I've got PTSD and stuff like that throws me into turmoil. So, the deal is this. They're trying to build up a case against me to get me booted out of here. Period. My lawyer only oversees my financial situation and Medicare/MediCal status and that's it. Obviously I need an attorney or someone who can say, "No, you can't do that." But I can't afford one, or get one pro bono, or a paralegal for that matter, and I don't know what to do. The State protects itself, so they're obviously no help at all, and I have nowhere to turn. Please pray for me, David/BeauJangles Edited 42 minutes ago by BeauJangles John 777 Cletus watchful solid ohhello frienduff Giller LesI've seen him at Worthy, but barely know anything about him. If people are falsely accusing him, that is awful and we need to pray for him, that his name is cleared.
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Post by 777 on Mar 3, 2020 17:53:11 GMT -5
I can't believe Hippie would do anything like that! He is probably the best moderator over at Worthy. We need to pray. Thanks for letting us know.
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Post by 777 on Mar 3, 2020 17:58:31 GMT -5
Lets be praying for beau . but let me make a point . This is why we ought to guard that tongue . jokes and such have no need in our lives . I honestly think beau did this , in innocence . and I think they just don't like that man . But we do need to guard that tongue . even I do . facts are facts . We cant just joke around . Now with all that being said , I have no doubts beau is being done big time wrong . So lets pray for him . lets really pray for him . but please lets guard our tongues too . He likely said or did something perfectly innocent that was turned into something bad. The least little joke or even a compliment can be taken wrong.
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Post by John on Mar 3, 2020 18:42:06 GMT -5
I do know who Beau Jangles is, and I have always liked the guy. He admits to joking around, so he obviously said something that was able to be used to bring an accusation. Do I believe Beau Jangles really said anything bad? No. What I think likely happened is that the people that work there are unbelievers, and they know he is a Christian, so they took the first opportunity they could find to twist something he said to accuse him. You can do absolutely nothing wrong, as we have seen first hand at Worthy Christian Forums, and be falsely accused by bad people. That is what I think happened to Beau Jangles. If he had not been joking and saying something they were able to use against him, they would have probably said he looked at someone the wrong way or made up something else. That is the way the devil works.
I am fine with starting a fund to help him get a lawyer, but given how expensive that would be, I do not think that if you took up a collection of everyone here and at Worthy, you could come up with enough. That is just the reality of it. Most are barely scraping by right now. I think Cletus gave good advise. I also think that Frienduff made a good point about the dangers of kidding around. I hate this P.C. world we live in. Still, it is what it is. This is probably the smartest thing I could advise Beau Jangles to do. Since he admits to joking around, he should apologize if his comments were taken wrong, and promise not to joke around with the nurses in question anymore. I do not believe he said anything wrong, but that does not matter. We are dealing with bad people. He should do what he needs to do in order to try to get this resolved. That is what I would suggest. Tell Beau Jangles that we at Narrow Way will pray for him, and that we stand with him, and based on what I know about his character, I do not think he is guilty of wrong doing.
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Post by John on Mar 3, 2020 18:49:06 GMT -5
Lets be praying for beau . but let me make a point . This is why we ought to guard that tongue . jokes and such have no need in our lives . I honestly think beau did this , in innocence . and I think they just don't like that man . But we do need to guard that tongue . even I do . facts are facts . We cant just joke around . Now with all that being said , I have no doubts beau is being done big time wrong . So lets pray for him . lets really pray for him . but please lets guard our tongues too . The dangers are real when it comes to joking around, but I think it is sad that we have come to the place where people are so p.c. and have no sense of humor! In order to avoid accusations, I can understand your counsel, and I certainly would avoid joking around with people like that in the future, but I really do not think there is anything wrong with kidding. Both of us make jokes at times. We use humor to make a point. Now, I do not know what Beau Jangles said, and it may be that if I knew, I might think he should not have said it, but I am assuming it was perfectly innocent, and intentionally taken wrong. I wish Hippie was here so he could fully tell us his side of the story, what he said, and what the nurses are accusing him of. There is nothing anyone can do to undo what he said. We have to deal with the reality of where we are today, but it might make a difference with regard to how we would advise him going forward.
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Post by John on Mar 3, 2020 18:52:23 GMT -5
I can't believe Hippie would do anything like that! He is probably the best moderator over at Worthy. We need to pray. Thanks for letting us know. I am getting confused. Is Hippie and Beau Jangles the same guy? I have seen him called both here.
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Post by John on Mar 3, 2020 18:54:31 GMT -5
I see in his post, he says he is a former, peace loving hippie. Immediately, that got me thinking about a guy that I thought went by Hippie. I am not sure if this is the same person? Regardless, my advise is the same.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 3, 2020 18:55:42 GMT -5
Not being a member to worthy, I only know bits and pieces to what you guys share here.
All I can do is pray to a all knowing God who I believe already has a plan and a purpose in regards to this situation and I trust in our Lord that He is fully in control of this and to this chap 'beau' I sure there is a great TESTIMONY waiting to be heard later on...
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