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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 30, 2020 18:44:18 GMT -5
I'm hearing a lot about how men in the U.S increasing seek spouses from foreign countries.
They say feminism has ruined dating for them and want someone who isn't afraid of serving or being submissive.
They perceive the modern Western woman as spoiled, unfeminine, demanding, and emasculating.
On the woman's side, I hear complaints of a lack of chivalry. Men not stepping up to the plate. Men not wanting to be gentlemen and so on.
But when society insists that men and women are the same in every way and are interchangeable in their nature and roles--- this dating stalemate is a natural result.
Being a Christian, I tend to get along with men better than my non-Christian female friends.
Having the mind of Christ makes you more male-friendly on multiple levels. Some guys are simply relieved that you don't see masculinity as a problem that needs to be fixed.
Men may be different but different isn't wrong. There's a place for us all.
At the risk of being judged, frankly, I like men.
They deal with pain differently, often developing an awesome sense of humor. It's refreshing. Overall, I see men as people who definitely know how to let stuff go and not worry or stress all the time.
But feminism definitely sees an issue with men being masculine, and being leaders. As a result, men are now taught to remain childish well into adulthood. Because feminism teaches that they are unnecessary.
This is awful and has had obvious disastrous results on our society as a whole. Children need both mother's and father's. And male headship under Christ is a tremendous blessing and complement to a woman's innate helpfulness.
We ought to return to God's wisdom. Because we have ignored the obvious and become foolish just to be politically correct. But by we, I mean Western society. I serve the Lord.
Not only does political correctness cause the breakdown of society--- it really tries hard to overlook what used to be common sense.
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Post by frienduff on Mar 30, 2020 18:48:53 GMT -5
I'm hearing a lot about how men in the U.S increasing seek spouses from foreign countries.
They say feminism has ruined dating for them and want someone who isn't afraid of serving or being submissive.
They perceive the modern Western woman as spoiled, unfeminine, demanding, and emasculating.
On the woman's side, I hear complaints of a lack of chivalry. Men not stepping up to the plate. Men not wanting to be gentlemen and so on.
But when society insists that men and women are the same in every way and are interchangeable in their nature and roles--- this dating stalemate is a natural result.
Being a Christian, I tend to get along with men better than my non-Christian female friends.
Having the mind of Christ makes you more male-friendly on multiple levels. Some guys are simply relieved that you don't see masculinity as a problem that needs to be fixed.
Men may be different but different isn't wrong. There's a place for us all.
At the risk of being judged, frankly, I like men.
They deal with pain differently, often developing an awesome sense of humor. It's refreshing. Overall, I see men as people who definitely know how to let stuff go and not worry or stress all the time.
But feminism definitely sees an issue with men being masculine, and being leaders. As a result, men are now taught to remain childish well into adulthood. Because feminism teaches that they are unnecessary.
This is awful and has had obvious disastrous results on our society as a whole. Children need both mother's and father's. And male headship under Christ is a tremendous blessing and complement to a woman's innate helpfulness.
We ought to return to God's wisdom. Because we have ignored the obvious and become foolish just to be politically correct. But by we, I mean Western society. I serve the Lord.
Not only does political correctness cause the breakdown of society--- it really tries hard to overlook what used to be common sense.
Yep you can blame the eighties and churches for this one . They used to have to slogan , MEN need to get in touch with their femine side . GUESS TOO MANY HAVE NOW . I knew that was a bomb disaster coming . |
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Post by frienduff on Mar 30, 2020 18:51:04 GMT -5
What happened . women take over more roles now of authority in churches and men dont stand up for anything but just go with the flow .
truly the roles got reversed in a way . you got women leading churches and men submissive to their every beck and call .
The world is always changing and is getting worse , but why the church thought it had to adapt to the world , SAD TIMES .
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Post by frienduff on Mar 30, 2020 18:52:04 GMT -5
PS . sister you are LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVED . pope francis wont agree with you , BUT WE DONT HEED THAT MAN ANYWAY . Praise the LORD sister .
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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 30, 2020 18:53:20 GMT -5
I'm hearing a lot about how men in the U.S increasing seek spouses from foreign countries.
They say feminism has ruined dating for them and want someone who isn't afraid of serving or being submissive.
They perceive the modern Western woman as spoiled, unfeminine, demanding, and emasculating.
On the woman's side, I hear complaints of a lack of chivalry. Men not stepping up to the plate. Men not wanting to be gentlemen and so on.
But when society insists that men and women are the same in every way and are interchangeable in their nature and roles--- this dating stalemate is a natural result.
Being a Christian, I tend to get along with men better than my non-Christian female friends.
Having the mind of Christ makes you more male-friendly on multiple levels. Some guys are simply relieved that you don't see masculinity as a problem that needs to be fixed.
Men may be different but different isn't wrong. There's a place for us all.
At the risk of being judged, frankly, I like men.
They deal with pain differently, often developing an awesome sense of humor. It's refreshing. Overall, I see men as people who definitely know how to let stuff go and not worry or stress all the time.
But feminism definitely sees an issue with men being masculine, and being leaders. As a result, men are now taught to remain childish well into adulthood. Because feminism teaches that they are unnecessary.
This is awful and has had obvious disastrous results on our society as a whole. Children need both mother's and father's. And male headship under Christ is a tremendous blessing and complement to a woman's innate helpfulness.
We ought to return to God's wisdom. Because we have ignored the obvious and become foolish just to be politically correct. But by we, I mean Western society. I serve the Lord.
Not only does political correctness cause the breakdown of society--- it really tries hard to overlook what used to be common sense.
Yep you can blame the eighties and churches for this one . They used to have to slogan , MEN need to get in touch with their femine side . GUESS TOO MANY HAVE NOW . I knew that was a bomb disaster coming . Brother, I laughed so hard just now. Absolutely. Now the women don't even like the spineless jellies. |
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Post by John on Mar 31, 2020 5:43:37 GMT -5
I'm hearing a lot about how men in the U.S increasing seek spouses from foreign countries.
They say feminism has ruined dating for them and want someone who isn't afraid of serving or being submissive.
They perceive the modern Western woman as spoiled, unfeminine, demanding, and emasculating.
On the woman's side, I hear complaints of a lack of chivalry. Men not stepping up to the plate. Men not wanting to be gentlemen and so on.
But when society insists that men and women are the same in every way and are interchangeable in their nature and roles--- this dating stalemate is a natural result.
Being a Christian, I tend to get along with men better than my non-Christian female friends.
Having the mind of Christ makes you more male-friendly on multiple levels. Some guys are simply relieved that you don't see masculinity as a problem that needs to be fixed.
Men may be different but different isn't wrong. There's a place for us all.
At the risk of being judged, frankly, I like men.
They deal with pain differently, often developing an awesome sense of humor. It's refreshing. Overall, I see men as people who definitely know how to let stuff go and not worry or stress all the time.
But feminism definitely sees an issue with men being masculine, and being leaders. As a result, men are now taught to remain childish well into adulthood. Because feminism teaches that they are unnecessary.
This is awful and has had obvious disastrous results on our society as a whole. Children need both mother's and father's. And male headship under Christ is a tremendous blessing and complement to a woman's innate helpfulness.
We ought to return to God's wisdom. Because we have ignored the obvious and become foolish just to be politically correct. But by we, I mean Western society. I serve the Lord.
Not only does political correctness cause the breakdown of society--- it really tries hard to overlook what used to be common sense.
Yep you can blame the eighties and churches for this one . They used to have to slogan , MEN need to get in touch with their femine side . GUESS TOO MANY HAVE NOW . I knew that was a bomb disaster coming .
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Post by John on Mar 31, 2020 5:53:27 GMT -5
I'm hearing a lot about how men in the U.S increasing seek spouses from foreign countries.
They say feminism has ruined dating for them and want someone who isn't afraid of serving or being submissive.
They perceive the modern Western woman as spoiled, unfeminine, demanding, and emasculating.
On the woman's side, I hear complaints of a lack of chivalry. Men not stepping up to the plate. Men not wanting to be gentlemen and so on.
But when society insists that men and women are the same in every way and are interchangeable in their nature and roles--- this dating stalemate is a natural result.
Being a Christian, I tend to get along with men better than my non-Christian female friends.
Having the mind of Christ makes you more male-friendly on multiple levels. Some guys are simply relieved that you don't see masculinity as a problem that needs to be fixed.
Men may be different but different isn't wrong. There's a place for us all.
At the risk of being judged, frankly, I like men.
They deal with pain differently, often developing an awesome sense of humor. It's refreshing. Overall, I see men as people who definitely know how to let stuff go and not worry or stress all the time.
But feminism definitely sees an issue with men being masculine, and being leaders. As a result, men are now taught to remain childish well into adulthood. Because feminism teaches that they are unnecessary.
This is awful and has had obvious disastrous results on our society as a whole. Children need both mother's and father's. And male headship under Christ is a tremendous blessing and complement to a woman's innate helpfulness.
We ought to return to God's wisdom. Because we have ignored the obvious and become foolish just to be politically correct. But by we, I mean Western society. I serve the Lord.
Not only does political correctness cause the breakdown of society--- it really tries hard to overlook what used to be common sense.
Feminism is a type of rebellion against God's order, just as homosexuality is rebellion against God's order. People are rejecting God's plan and saying we can do things better, and they have created a mess, as men always do. No matter what the issue, we need to go back to the Bible and see what God says, and where we have moved away from His plan, we need to seek to return to it.
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Post by Cletus on Mar 31, 2020 17:43:10 GMT -5
i was speaking to a male co-worker. i mentioned i was going to take my sweetness to dinner. he asked if i was going to pay... yes... aw cmon man its 2020 she can pay too.
there is a whole generation in our society that is wholly Godless.
and full disclosure, sometimes i dont pay. but its when i left money at home and going was spontaneous. i still offer to go get money, and i normally feel guilty i didnt pay. you know what she does tho? when no one is looking she slips the money in my pocket and says quiet, you pay.
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Post by Tabitha3319 on Mar 31, 2020 18:42:50 GMT -5
i was speaking to a male co-worker. i mentioned i was going to take my sweetness to dinner. he asked if i was going to pay... yes... aw cmon man its 2020 she can pay too. there is a whole generation in our society that is wholly Godless. and full disclosure, sometimes i dont pay. but its when i left money at home and going was spontaneous. i still offer to go get money, and i normally feel guilty i didnt pay. you know what she does tho? when no one is looking she slips the money in my pocket and says quiet, you pay. Sounds like you've got a good lady. If a woman is good like that, why not pay? Being a good woman isn't easy. We give constantly. Even if it's not a paycheck. She has earned free dinner. People can be so obtuse |
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Post by John on Mar 31, 2020 18:43:31 GMT -5
i was speaking to a male co-worker. i mentioned i was going to take my sweetness to dinner. he asked if i was going to pay... yes... aw cmon man its 2020 she can pay too. there is a whole generation in our society that is wholly Godless. and full disclosure, sometimes i dont pay. but its when i left money at home and going was spontaneous. i still offer to go get money, and i normally feel guilty i didnt pay. you know what she does tho? when no one is looking she slips the money in my pocket and says quiet, you pay.
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Post by Cletus on Mar 31, 2020 19:36:35 GMT -5
i was speaking to a male co-worker. i mentioned i was going to take my sweetness to dinner. he asked if i was going to pay... yes... aw cmon man its 2020 she can pay too. there is a whole generation in our society that is wholly Godless. and full disclosure, sometimes i dont pay. but its when i left money at home and going was spontaneous. i still offer to go get money, and i normally feel guilty i didnt pay. you know what she does tho? when no one is looking she slips the money in my pocket and says quiet, you pay. Sounds like you've got a good lady. If a woman is good like that, why not pay? Being a good woman isn't easy. We give constantly. Even if it's not a paycheck. She has earned free dinner. People can be so obtuse i do, but sometimes she wants to go somewhere when my money is at home and i didnt plan on going anywhere. if i leave it i wont spend it. i cant always anticipate her spontaneous-ness.
men sacrifice a good bit too. if it should arise we are to die for our wife.
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