Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2023 22:04:11 GMT -5
Thanks for the encouragement and feed back. My mind wants to think thinks that God would not allow for a Christian, Married Man, to think. I'm attracted to my wife and we have a blessed marriage. I'm not talking only about intimacy but also I lover her very much and I don't want to hurt her. Satan puts "forbidden thoughts/desires" in order to give me, that is, my sinful, self-gratifying, flesh.
For example,
1. Hey Dom, your wife is mad, find another
2. Hey Dom, your wife is not helping you, do this instead,it's not bad, it's natural, all guys do it, plus, you need help
Stop!
Why would I promise my wife to be with her mind and body, but then change my mind (break my promise) to be unfaithful to my God and unfaithful to my wife by seeking another companion for my emotional support and sexual intimacy?
Simply because I'm aroused?
Simply because I "feel" lonly?
Arousals are caused by thoughts, and not all thoughts are good, and safe. For example, a man to think of another women, not his wife, as if to use her body and not give her his body and mind, completely, but only in a fantasy, as if to please selfish arousal gratification, therefore making women into "things" and my body into "something I submit to and obey" as if I am the servant to my own god/me? No way. That will not work.
My wife wants me to be ONLY thinking of her and NOT ONLY while we are intimate. THAT is God's design for my marriage.
I also do not want my wife to be with me physically while her heart and mind are mentally desiring other men, so it works both ways.
This is marital faithfulness
This is being pure in God's eyes.
In God's eyes is the key. NOT man's eyes. Man's eyes are ever satisfied and forever trying to fill a lust void will every single women on the planet for hookups in their mind that will NEVER FULFILL and NEVER be true. That is not a trap and laws but "the truth shall set you free"
We are free to live in righteouness
We are free FROM evil ways
or
We are free to live in UNrighteouness
and We are free FROM righteous ways
You have to choose which God, which laws, which authority you will bow and serve.
I know what I have chosen.
I choose God's plan for my life and marriage, not anything less.
Any wife would want her husband to be ONLY interested in her ANY and I think ALL, Yes, ALL people want faithfulness and with God ALL things are possible, but if you choose a life to remove God out of the picture, then you are making your choice to do it on your own, and we are left to our own consequences, of shame, lonliness, using others for s-x and self-gratification, letting our minds run wild thinking of all and any others that would please us, then we need more and more harder substances (drugs) to please us and we end up dying in overdose, or death eventually, while our brains and hearts grow sick and more and more corrupt,
THAT is bondange
THAT is slavery
Those who seek to be free from God's laws are in effect making the choice to be set up, their own laws, therefore becoming a slave to another master (aka self).
I'm not gonna serve myself, I already tried that and it only leads to despair and it's nuts, it makes me crazy, depressed, hateful, pride, arrogant, self-righteousness
Only when I die to my selfish ways, by accepting that Jesus Christ has died on the cross for my sins, and is FOR the SINNER, that means FOR ME and YOU and EVERYONE, then I can realize that is God's punishment and view on sins. God HATES SIN, look at what it does to us? Sin kills marriages, broken families, children suffer.
Sin makes us believe a lie.
that is
lie 1 = do what you want if it feels good
truth 1 = can I walk to you and slap your face, I feel good, why not let me?
reality 1 = do you see how lie 1 is stupid
lie 2 = I'm my own master
truth 2 = you are not a master of anything, but a servant to the self/evil/satan or God, to Jesus, His ways
reality = we are all religeous and have a boss/ authory we trust, despite our faith or lack thereof
The big question - how to love myself?
The big answer - God demonstrate His Own love for us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us" Romans 5:8
wait, what? so if God died for me, and said "man women, I do not condemn you, go an sin no more"
I have to realize THAT is the very heart of God.
God doesn't condemn you, He is the one who wants to free you and I from the law of sin and death and give you life and freedom IN RIGHTEOUSNESS and holiness
Look at how Jesus look at women.
Look at how Jesus looked at little children
Look at how Jesus looked at men
THAT is how God wants to look in you and through you to them, looking at them, through you.
WILL YOU LET HIM?
If not, if I say "no",
I am saying "in effect" this
"God, I think you too harsh, and I am just a man, I was tempted or something"
You know what?
God can say "Oh do you thought I was too harsh, why then didn't you seek me for refuge?"
Why?
Let's examine,
"God your mean"
soooo....what...??
soo...what about the cross? Is that God's meanness? Is that mean?
No, I'm talking about this..
No, I'm talking about this cross now....
There is hope and freedom right in front of our eyes, IF you really want it.
How bad to you want it?
I want it soooooo bad, I'm talking about freedom, purity, in Jesus, and found in no other.
My heart is compassionate for the people caught in this despair, because I can understand what they are going through. A real mental prison, a mental prison, that Satans to enslave you and I in,
NO WAY!!!
Get out of here Satan in the name of Jesus, Get thee behind me you liar, for it is written, "Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself", for it is written "Husbands love your wife" for it is written, "Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only"
You and I are not the enemy, lucifer is and all his lying angels and false lying wonders, trying to enslave you and I, because he knows his time is short and he will be sent to the lake of fire, Jesus said that hell was created for Satan and his angels (HINT HINT: not you, not created for you, so why listen to a liar who wants you to join him there, why let him mislead you to doubt and deny the Lord God, for a forbidden fruit, is IT really worth it? Is orgasm, and flesh worth paying for, is lust gonna make me love my wife better, and other female co-workers and sisters in Christ and all women, even the women and men in adult industry? No. lust will not, lust will say "take it, do it, feel it" while you do, we die and went sent ourselves to hell now and after.
Forget that junk
Lust is NOT worthy it.
death to lust
resist and rebel against wickedness
hate evil
away with it all.
For example,
1. Hey Dom, your wife is mad, find another
2. Hey Dom, your wife is not helping you, do this instead,it's not bad, it's natural, all guys do it, plus, you need help
Stop!
Why would I promise my wife to be with her mind and body, but then change my mind (break my promise) to be unfaithful to my God and unfaithful to my wife by seeking another companion for my emotional support and sexual intimacy?
Simply because I'm aroused?
Simply because I "feel" lonly?
Arousals are caused by thoughts, and not all thoughts are good, and safe. For example, a man to think of another women, not his wife, as if to use her body and not give her his body and mind, completely, but only in a fantasy, as if to please selfish arousal gratification, therefore making women into "things" and my body into "something I submit to and obey" as if I am the servant to my own god/me? No way. That will not work.
My wife wants me to be ONLY thinking of her and NOT ONLY while we are intimate. THAT is God's design for my marriage.
I also do not want my wife to be with me physically while her heart and mind are mentally desiring other men, so it works both ways.
This is marital faithfulness
This is being pure in God's eyes.
In God's eyes is the key. NOT man's eyes. Man's eyes are ever satisfied and forever trying to fill a lust void will every single women on the planet for hookups in their mind that will NEVER FULFILL and NEVER be true. That is not a trap and laws but "the truth shall set you free"
We are free to live in righteouness
We are free FROM evil ways
or
We are free to live in UNrighteouness
and We are free FROM righteous ways
You have to choose which God, which laws, which authority you will bow and serve.
I know what I have chosen.
I choose God's plan for my life and marriage, not anything less.
Any wife would want her husband to be ONLY interested in her ANY and I think ALL, Yes, ALL people want faithfulness and with God ALL things are possible, but if you choose a life to remove God out of the picture, then you are making your choice to do it on your own, and we are left to our own consequences, of shame, lonliness, using others for s-x and self-gratification, letting our minds run wild thinking of all and any others that would please us, then we need more and more harder substances (drugs) to please us and we end up dying in overdose, or death eventually, while our brains and hearts grow sick and more and more corrupt,
THAT is bondange
THAT is slavery
Those who seek to be free from God's laws are in effect making the choice to be set up, their own laws, therefore becoming a slave to another master (aka self).
I'm not gonna serve myself, I already tried that and it only leads to despair and it's nuts, it makes me crazy, depressed, hateful, pride, arrogant, self-righteousness
Only when I die to my selfish ways, by accepting that Jesus Christ has died on the cross for my sins, and is FOR the SINNER, that means FOR ME and YOU and EVERYONE, then I can realize that is God's punishment and view on sins. God HATES SIN, look at what it does to us? Sin kills marriages, broken families, children suffer.
Sin makes us believe a lie.
that is
lie 1 = do what you want if it feels good
truth 1 = can I walk to you and slap your face, I feel good, why not let me?
reality 1 = do you see how lie 1 is stupid
lie 2 = I'm my own master
truth 2 = you are not a master of anything, but a servant to the self/evil/satan or God, to Jesus, His ways
reality = we are all religeous and have a boss/ authory we trust, despite our faith or lack thereof
The big question - how to love myself?
The big answer - God demonstrate His Own love for us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us" Romans 5:8
wait, what? so if God died for me, and said "man women, I do not condemn you, go an sin no more"
I have to realize THAT is the very heart of God.
God doesn't condemn you, He is the one who wants to free you and I from the law of sin and death and give you life and freedom IN RIGHTEOUSNESS and holiness
Look at how Jesus look at women.
Look at how Jesus looked at little children
Look at how Jesus looked at men
THAT is how God wants to look in you and through you to them, looking at them, through you.
WILL YOU LET HIM?
If not, if I say "no",
I am saying "in effect" this
"God, I think you too harsh, and I am just a man, I was tempted or something"
You know what?
God can say "Oh do you thought I was too harsh, why then didn't you seek me for refuge?"
Why?
Let's examine,
"God your mean"
soooo....what...??
soo...what about the cross? Is that God's meanness? Is that mean?
No, I'm talking about this..
No, I'm talking about this cross now....
There is hope and freedom right in front of our eyes, IF you really want it.
How bad to you want it?
I want it soooooo bad, I'm talking about freedom, purity, in Jesus, and found in no other.
My heart is compassionate for the people caught in this despair, because I can understand what they are going through. A real mental prison, a mental prison, that Satans to enslave you and I in,
NO WAY!!!
Get out of here Satan in the name of Jesus, Get thee behind me you liar, for it is written, "Love the Lord your God and love your neighbor as yourself", for it is written "Husbands love your wife" for it is written, "Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only"
You and I are not the enemy, lucifer is and all his lying angels and false lying wonders, trying to enslave you and I, because he knows his time is short and he will be sent to the lake of fire, Jesus said that hell was created for Satan and his angels (HINT HINT: not you, not created for you, so why listen to a liar who wants you to join him there, why let him mislead you to doubt and deny the Lord God, for a forbidden fruit, is IT really worth it? Is orgasm, and flesh worth paying for, is lust gonna make me love my wife better, and other female co-workers and sisters in Christ and all women, even the women and men in adult industry? No. lust will not, lust will say "take it, do it, feel it" while you do, we die and went sent ourselves to hell now and after.
Forget that junk
Lust is NOT worthy it.
death to lust
resist and rebel against wickedness
hate evil
away with it all.