That is sad to imagine a man beating the wife God gave them . And it sad when a women verbally abuses the man with whome she entered marriage . IF folks simply HONORED GOD above everything , the marriage would show this as each one lived for the other above themselves , and when either was in error the wife with fear could counsel the husband by the word in humbleness of mind . And the husband would be as Christ who loved the church and would correct . I had the worst sad thought when I read what Cletus said , the image of a man beating his wife just made me feel so heavy . And when sister Candace said what she did about the woman belittling the man , just heaviness when that image popped n my mind . Its a tragedy when either one wont LIVE FOR GOD FIRST , and HONOR HIM and by doing so would truly do what was best for the other .
What a lot of women do is, drive the man crazy until he runs out of the house screaming, hope he has an affair, and use it as grounds for getting more money in the divorce. Yes, women, I know what y'all do.
You hit that nail fairly and squarely on the head. Then of course he is forced by law to pay child support. That way she can have her freedom, and always have a 'reason' for being a 'single mom'. She no doubt will broadcast far and wide what a heroine she is and what a 'marginal person' he was. Beautiful. She keeps all the household furniture and effects. He has a few shirts in his suitcase, and off he goes.
A pastor told me I should just leave long before she booted me out. It is interesting that you have observed what few women will admit to. If they want an excuse, they might comb the scriptures looking until they find one, then use it.
I do not think the scriptures should be used as a blunt instrument, but I do see that this happens often.
Let’s flip the paradigm on this. “What kind of woman says her husband’s paycheck isn’t good enough and then accuses him of cheating when he starts to avoid her? That aint a woman; it’s a five year old in a woman’s body.”
That is a good point. When the woman who is supposed to be their help meet and closest companion in life constantly belittles and opposes them, it will lead to men turning elsewhere, but not necessarily having an affair. You have a lot of insight into things most are blind to.
Tabitha3319: Thanks frienduff! You were missed!
Sept 24, 2021 8:10:41 GMT -5
frienduff: Let all praise and rejoice in the LORD . March onwards in the Lord my friends .
Sept 24, 2021 12:01:08 GMT -5
ohhello: The glorious biblical Lord Jesus and let’s stay in the KJV bibles.
Sept 24, 2021 12:09:00 GMT -5
ohhello: You have all been prayed for. Praise the Lord.
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Tabitha3319: Thank you so much, ohello!
Sept 24, 2021 17:58:11 GMT -5
frienduff: Good night my brothers and sisters . Let us continue onward in the glorious Lord .
Sept 24, 2021 20:26:33 GMT -5
Tabitha3319: Thank you Jesus for loving me and giving me Your peace!
Sept 25, 2021 8:33:55 GMT -5
ohhello: Brother Frienduff and sister Tabitha has been here. Let the glorious Lord Jesus be praised. You have all been prayed for again today.
Sept 25, 2021 10:45:46 GMT -5
John: Thought it has been a difficult week, I want to thank the Lord for all of His blessings. No matter what is taking place, our God is faithful, always looking after His children. \ / Praise, honor and glory to the Lord Jesus Christ.
Sept 25, 2021 14:24:16 GMT -5
ohhello: Sing it out brother John. Yes, our Lord is glorious. Praise the Lord. You have all been prayed for.
Sept 26, 2021 14:33:18 GMT -5
John: Hello to Giller. Hello Les. Hello Ohhello, and thank you for your prayers. They are always appreciated. Yes, the Lord is good, all the time.
Sept 26, 2021 18:56:37 GMT -5
John: I want to thank the Lord Jesus Christ for salvation, for his friendship, for his mercy and grace, and for all the things he does for us, day in and day out. He is always better to us than we are to Him.
Sept 26, 2021 18:57:54 GMT -5
John: Thanks be to the Heavenly Father. Blessings, honor and glory to the Christ, the Son of the Living God, the Lord Jesus Christ. Praises to the Holy Spirit, our divine teacher and guide into all truth, and our great comforter. Hallelujah to our God!
Sept 26, 2021 18:59:04 GMT -5
frienduff: John was here . Rejoice in the LORD my friends . I see les and giller were here too . So was sister . Let the glorious Lord be praised my friends .
Sept 26, 2021 20:54:03 GMT -5
ohhello: Wonderful prayers brother John. You have all been prayed for again today. Brother Frienduff has also been in. Onwards each day in the biblical Lord Jesus and keep on in those KJV Bibles.
Sept 27, 2021 11:38:01 GMT -5
frienduff: Hello my friends . Sister is here . You are spotted sister . Let us thank our Lord and rejoice in Him .
Sept 28, 2021 10:49:16 GMT -5
ohhello: The glorious Lord be thanked and praised. Everyone continues to be prayed for everyday.
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