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Post by frienduff on Jan 24, 2019 17:25:54 GMT -5
Yall, let no one mess around and let her feel its okay to remarry, or that blood is on the hands of her and those who let her think this . Yall looking at one of the most joyful , happy men alive . AND I am single and wont REMARRY . EITHER we love JESUS first or we don't . LETTERS is right too . Though letters could be married to a believer. So then if while her first husband lives she be married to another man , She shall be called an adulteress . Some don't get how serious this is . We cant pander to people , it wont help them , it will damn them and their blood is on our hands . I am saying it for all to hear . DO NOT REMARRY . MY hands are clean .
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Post by PG4Him on Jan 24, 2019 17:26:24 GMT -5
Let me add to my comment about husbands getting rid of their wives. It’s not just a man thing. Women are notorious for doing it too. A woman will be just really nasty and argumentative all the time, and treat her husband like a child until he gets disgusted and starts avoiding her. Then she’ll go crying to her friends that her husband is avoiding her, as if she didn’t see it coming. People play these games, and a good Christian spouse ends up getting stuck in bondage because they can’t win for losing. People do the best they can until they’ve just had it. Sometimes your oxen get stuck in the ditch on a Sabbath…
And yet through it all, married people are married.
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Post by PG4Him on Jan 24, 2019 17:29:03 GMT -5
Honestly, I am trying to counsel Naomi on damage control to fix her marriage before it spirals into a worse disaster. Taking a break and contending for him to repent is a lot better than sticking around until you give up completely. Sometimes a break really can work to get a spouse’s attention.
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Post by PG4Him on Jan 24, 2019 17:33:17 GMT -5
I will say this as clearly as I can. Whatever ends up happening with Naomi’s marriage, if she does not reconcile with him, then she should be prepared to remain celibate until her marriage is fixed or someone dies. There isn’t any wiggle room around that. Any discussion of a second husband is unacceptable with or without a break.
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Post by frienduff on Jan 24, 2019 20:07:43 GMT -5
I will say this as clearly as I can. Whatever ends up happening with Naomi’s marriage, if she does not reconcile with him, then she should be prepared to remain celibate until her marriage is fixed or someone dies. There isn’t any wiggle room around that. Any discussion of a second husband is unacceptable with or without a break. Let the record show I FULLY AGREE. And JESUS said it FIRST . You are loved sister Candice . Now , let all put those hands up and praise the LORD . And let us pray for our loved sister naominash.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2019 22:01:43 GMT -5
It's okay. I don't plan to remarry. I will wait on the Lord.
Right now, I have to get my house in order. I'm home and I'm safe. I have to be strong and prepare on all fronts: mind, heart, and soul.
It is amazing how the Father is moving on my behalf. Jesus is my Lord and He helps me prioritize. The Spirit teaches me all things. The Lord is my husband right now. And He is more than enough. I can finally say I'm happy, loved, whole, and satisfied in Him.
I just have a feeling.
I'll be married again.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2019 22:17:15 GMT -5
How do you discern salvation? "If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word;
and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him." - John 14:23
"...this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after
those days, says the Lord: I will put My law in their minds, and write it on their
hearts; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people." - Jeremiah 31:33
"Only acknowledge your iniquity,
That you have transgressed against the Lord your God..." - Jeremiah 3:13
"As far as the east is from the west,
So far has He removed our transgressions from us." - Psalm 103:12
"...one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and
reaching forward to those things which are ahead..." - Philippians 3:13
" For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins
and their lawless deeds I will remember no more." - Hebrews 8:12The Lord is calling you to live a new life... And all you have to do is to believe in Him.
"I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance." - Luke 5:32
"For God has committed them all to disobedience, that He might have mercy on all." - Romans 11:32
"He who covers his sins will not prosper,
But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy." - Proverbs 28:13
"I say to you, there is joy in the presence of the
angels of God over one sinner who repents." - Luke 15:10
"for the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost." - Luke 19:10
"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!..." - 1 John 3:1
You are loved in Jesus' name! Blessings!
I'd like to thank you for your choice in formatting. The red helps me understand that Jesus is speaking. The black helps me understand that this is you speaking.
The white background helps me distinguish what is being said.
Red. Black. White.
It is safe. It is truth. It is Holy. Red for the blood of Jesus Christ. Black conceals and protects the inward intention. White is the Holiness on the inside of you.
You are blessed and highly favored of the Lord. He will reward you for seeking Him no matter what. No matter what, always follow and seek Him.
Even when it get's tough. The Lord is there. He rewards those who seek Him with all of their heart, and all of their soul, and all of their mind.
Only He provides wholeness.
Don't be afraid. Seek Him. He desires to be found.
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Post by John on Jan 24, 2019 22:22:01 GMT -5
It's okay. I don't plan to remarry. I will wait on the Lord. Right now, I have to get my house in order. I'm home and I'm safe. I have to be strong and prepare on all fronts: mind, heart, and soul. It is amazing how the Father is moving on my behalf. Jesus is my Lord and He helps me prioritize. The Spirit teaches me all things. The Lord is my husband right now. And He is more than enough. I can finally say I'm happy, loved, whole, and satisfied in Him. I just have a feeling. I'll be married again. I am glad to hear you are home and safe. That is much better than being in a motel room day to day, not knowing what the next day will bring. Having some distance between you and your husband is probably best for now, and you can focus on you.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2019 22:27:20 GMT -5
It's okay. I don't plan to remarry. I will wait on the Lord. Right now, I have to get my house in order. I'm home and I'm safe. I have to be strong and prepare on all fronts: mind, heart, and soul. It is amazing how the Father is moving on my behalf. Jesus is my Lord and He helps me prioritize. The Spirit teaches me all things. The Lord is my husband right now. And He is more than enough. I can finally say I'm happy, loved, whole, and satisfied in Him. I just have a feeling. I'll be married again. I am glad to hear you are home and safe. That is much better than being in a motel room day to day, not knowing what the next day will bring. Having some distance between you and your husband is probably best for now, and you can focus on you.
Thank you, brother. Every man and woman of true faith has told me to focus on taking care of myself. Thank you. Your faith is true and sincere. The Lord is using you mightily in my life. This is a sensitive time. This year. It will be trouble.
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Post by 2fw8212a on Jan 25, 2019 8:59:29 GMT -5
... This is a sensitive time. This year. It will be trouble. "Do not fear any of those things which you are about to suffer...
...Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life." - Revelation 2:10
"A faithful man will abound with blessings..." - Proverbs 28:20
"Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have.
For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”" - Hebrews 13:5
"For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities
nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing,
shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." - Romans 8:38-39
"...In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world." - John 16:33
Blessings to you in Jesus' name!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2019 14:06:51 GMT -5
Hello, narrow way community.
I just wanted to thank you for all of your prayers.
I have suffered quite a bit but with The Lord, nothing is wasted.
I will focus on my own needs in this season, not romance. But I believe 1 Corinthians 7:15 is applicable in my situation.
My husband did not even try to visit me and express no desire to work on the marriage.
I don't owe him the privilege of my time and energy any more. He has done nothing for me that did not also help himself.
If the unbelieving depart, let them depart. I however am not under bondage. I have no intention of wasting any more emotional energy on a husband who is lazy and biblically speaking, is worst than an unbeliever for failing to provide for me or even himself.
no double standards please.
In any case, I am using the computer temporarily. I am safe and am healing from the ruins of my marriage day by day. It's good to feel like the living and not the dead again.
I love you guys. I am okay. I will be on more regularly soon.
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Post by Cletus on Feb 16, 2019 15:05:16 GMT -5
Hello, narrow way community. I just wanted to thank you for all of your prayers. I have suffered quite a bit but with The Lord, nothing is wasted. I will focus on my own needs in this season, not romance. But I believe 1 Corinthians 7:15 is applicable in my situation. My husband did not even try to visit me and express no desire to work on the marriage. I don't owe him the privilege of my time and energy any more. He has done nothing for me that did not also help himself. If the unbelieving depart, let them depart. I however am not under bondage. I have no intention of wasting any more emotional energy on a husband who is lazy and biblically speaking, is worst than an unbeliever for failing to provide for me or even himself. no double standards please. In any case, I am using the computer temporarily. I am safe and am healing from the ruins of my marriage day by day. It's good to feel like the living and not the dead again. I love you guys. I am okay. I will be on more regularly soon. love you too sister. was wondering where you went. so glad to hear from you.
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Post by joseph on May 29, 2019 13:04:29 GMT -5
Let is be said , I FULLYAGREE. either remain single or be reconciled to your husband . NO REMARRIAGE . NO REMARRIAGE . THAT is ADULTERY. And I beg and plead no man woman or child says otherwise . I have been single for many years . Happy is the one who keeps JESUS SAYINGS .
Amen.
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