Dezi
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Post by Dezi on May 21, 2019 15:01:51 GMT -5
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Post by Dezi on May 21, 2019 20:39:45 GMT -5
Ok... so I thought I had read every scripture pertaining to marriage and divorce and now today I have this scripture given to me. I need thoughts on this?
Deuteronomy 24:1-4
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Post by 2fw8212a on May 21, 2019 21:01:05 GMT -5
I need thoughts on this? Deuteronomy 24:1-4 It is old covenant law."For I through the law died to the law that I might live to God." - Galatians 2:18
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I
now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me." - Galatians 2:20
"Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think of anything as being from ourselves,
but our sufficiency is from God, who also made us sufficient as ministers of the new covenant,
not of the letter but of the Spirit; for the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life." - 2 Corinthians 3:6
"But now we have been delivered from the law, having died to what we were held by,
so that we should serve in the newness of the Spirit and not in the oldness of the letter." - Romans 7:6
"But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law." - Galatians 5:18
"...this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel after those days,
says the Lord: I will put My law in their minds, and write it on their hearts..." - Jeremiah 31:33
"For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith; as it is written,
“The just shall live by faith.”" - Romans 1:17
"Do you have faith? Have it to yourself before God.
Happy is he who does not condemn himself in what he approves." - Romans 14:22
"For you, brethren, have been called to liberty;
only do not use liberty as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another." - Galatians 5:13
"...For why is my liberty judged by another man’s conscience?" - 1 Corinthians 10:29
"Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ..." - Romans 5:1
"There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus,
who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit." - Romans 8:1
"...the works of the flesh are evident, which are:
adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery,
hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, dissensions,
heresies, envy, murders, drunkenness, revelries, and the like..." - Galatians 5:19-21
"...of which I tell you beforehand, just as I also told you in time past,
that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God." - Galatians 5:21
"But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you..." - Romans 8:9
"Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love..." - Ephesians 5:1-2
"I say then: Walk in the Spirit, and you shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh." - Galatians 5:16
"...the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth..." - Ephesians 5:9
"...the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness,
goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law." - Galatians 5:22-23
"...if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law." - Galatians 5:18
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Cletus
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Post by Cletus on May 21, 2019 22:46:44 GMT -5
I think a good thing to do, would be to maybe start a thread, to were we examine each of the verses carefully, because a whole lot of opinions are being given here, and to actually quote scriptures for the many things we say. And I am not saying no scriptures are being mentioned, but some things are being said without giving scriptural evidence. Do you remember that comedian that had the punchline ... You might be a Brean if...
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Post by John on May 22, 2019 7:52:40 GMT -5
Ok... so I thought I had read every scripture pertaining to marriage and divorce and now today I have this scripture given to me. I need thoughts on this? Deuteronomy 24:1-4 This is the actual portion of the law of Moses dealing with divorce, the one Jesus was asked about by the Pharisees. What it is saying is that if a man finds uncleanness in his wife, he can give her a bill of divorcement, and then she is free to go and be another man's wife. If they remain single, reconciliation is permitted. If the woman re-marries, and then her second husband dies or she gets divorced from him, she is never allowed to return to her first husband.
The question everyone had was in regard to the meaning of some uncleanness. Some took that to mean that a man could put away his wife for anything, but Jesus explained that this means sexual immorality. That is why I hold to the opinion that sexual immorality is the only valid reason why a man or woman can put away their spouse and marry someone else. I do believe it is permissible for that cause, but I do agree with what you said about it not being God's desire. He would much rather we be able to forgive and remain married. Malachi says God hates divorce. I am referring to Malachi 2:14-16. Sometimes this is not possible, because you have a serial cheater, and God doesn't expect anyone to put up with that for a number of reasons, one being the uncleanness of it.
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Post by Giller on May 23, 2019 9:56:46 GMT -5
I think a good thing to do, would be to maybe start a thread, to were we examine each of the verses carefully, because a whole lot of opinions are being given here, and to actually quote scriptures for the many things we say. And I am not saying no scriptures are being mentioned, but some things are being said without giving scriptural evidence. Do you remember that comedian that had the punchline ... You might be a Brean if...
No, never heard of this punchline.
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Cletus
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Post by Cletus on May 23, 2019 18:15:06 GMT -5
Do you remember that comedian that had the punchline ... You might be a Brean if...
No, never heard of this punchline. lol. i changed it. it was jeff foxworthy... you might be a redneck if...
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Post by tyedye on May 22, 2020 8:27:48 GMT -5
I am not sure if I am posting in the correct topic, but I hope it's here. My sister is going to get married the second time, however she is still married. Her first husband left her and moved to another town about 5 years ago, so technically they weren't a couple for this time. About 2 years ago she met a wonderful man, who is very supportive to her and her faith, however he is not ready to continue their relationship (start living togehter) if she doesn't accept his proposal. She is considering a divorce and is asking my advice if that would be right, but I don't know what to say...
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Post by John on May 22, 2020 8:48:38 GMT -5
I am not sure if I am posting in the correct topic, but I hope it's here. My sister is going to get married the second time, however she is still married. Her first husband left her and moved to another town about 5 years ago, so technically they weren't a couple for this time. About 2 years ago she met a wonderful man, who is very supportive to her and her faith, however he is not ready to continue their relationship (start living togehter) if she doesn't accept his proposal. She is considering a divorce with onlinedivorcer.com/ and is asking my advice if that would be right, but I don't know what to say... I need a little more information here. Her first husband left her and moved. Did he hook up with another woman after leaving her? Living together as a married couple when you are not married is fornication, and is a sin. Living together while married to another is adultery, which is a sin. The divorce and re-marriage would be acceptable if her legal husband ran off and has cheated on her. If he never cheated, but just left, the Bible says they should leave the door open for reconciliation. If you will fill in the gaps, I will try to answer your question using scripture. Divorce and re-marriage is one of the most difficult situations people face, and it is something that is not always easy to give cut and dry answers to. The Bible gives us instructions, but each situation varies, so I need to know a few more details.
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Post by frienduff on May 22, 2020 12:18:40 GMT -5
My , its been one year since this post .
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Post by frienduff on May 22, 2020 12:23:41 GMT -5
I am not sure if I am posting in the correct topic, but I hope it's here. My sister is going to get married the second time, however she is still married. Her first husband left her and moved to another town about 5 years ago, so technically they weren't a couple for this time. About 2 years ago she met a wonderful man, who is very supportive to her and her faith, however he is not ready to continue their relationship (start living togehter) if she doesn't accept his proposal. She is considering a divorce with onlinedivorcer.com/ and is asking my advice if that would be right, but I don't know what to say... I need a little more information here. Her first husband left her and moved. Did he hook up with another woman after leaving her? Living together as a married couple when you are not married is fornication, and is a sin. Living together while married to another is adultery, which is a sin. The divorce and re-marriage would be acceptable if her legal husband ran off and has cheated on her. If he never cheated, but just left, the Bible says they should leave the door open for reconciliation. If you will fill in the gaps, I will try to answer your question using scripture. Divorce and re-marriage is one of the most difficult situations people face, and it is something that is not always easy to give cut and dry answers to. The Bible gives us instructions, but each situation varies, so I need to know a few more details. thats right . no remarriage is permissible peroid . save for fornication . or of course if the spouse dies .
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Post by tyedye on May 25, 2020 8:30:35 GMT -5
I am not sure if I am posting in the correct topic, but I hope it's here. My sister is going to get married the second time, however she is still married. Her first husband left her and moved to another town about 5 years ago, so technically they weren't a couple for this time. About 2 years ago she met a wonderful man, who is very supportive to her and her faith, however he is not ready to continue their relationship (start living togehter) if she doesn't accept his proposal. She is considering a divorce with onlinedivorcer.com/ and is asking my advice if that would be right, but I don't know what to say... I need a little more information here. Her first husband left her and moved. Did he hook up with another woman after leaving her? Living together as a married couple when you are not married is fornication, and is a sin. Living together while married to another is adultery, which is a sin. The divorce and re-marriage would be acceptable if her legal husband ran off and has cheated on her. If he never cheated, but just left, the Bible says they should leave the door open for reconciliation. If you will fill in the gaps, I will try to answer your question using scripture. Divorce and re-marriage is one of the most difficult situations people face, and it is something that is not always easy to give cut and dry answers to. The Bible gives us instructions, but each situation varies, so I need to know a few more details.
Thank you very much! As far as I know he didn't have permanent or serious relationship with any woman, however he had "hook-ups" with different girls, there were about 6 of them,..My sister had only friendly relationship with another man, no intimacy or kisses, and it was after she found out her ex husband has been "dating" or I don't know how to call it the 3rd woman...
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Post by solid on May 25, 2020 11:07:53 GMT -5
I need a little more information here. Her first husband left her and moved. Did he hook up with another woman after leaving her? Living together as a married couple when you are not married is fornication, and is a sin. Living together while married to another is adultery, which is a sin. The divorce and re-marriage would be acceptable if her legal husband ran off and has cheated on her. If he never cheated, but just left, the Bible says they should leave the door open for reconciliation. If you will fill in the gaps, I will try to answer your question using scripture. Divorce and re-marriage is one of the most difficult situations people face, and it is something that is not always easy to give cut and dry answers to. The Bible gives us instructions, but each situation varies, so I need to know a few more details.
Thank you very much! As far as I know he didn't have permanent or serious relationship with any woman, however he had "hook-ups" with different girls, there were about 6 of them,..My sister had only friendly relationship with another man, no intimacy or kisses, and it was after she found out her ex husband has been "dating" or I don't know how to call it the 3rd woman...
Hi Tyedye. If her husband committed adultery, she can get a divorce and remarry if the man she married is not divorced for reasons besides adultery. That is how I understand it.
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Post by John on May 25, 2020 15:24:13 GMT -5
I need a little more information here. Her first husband left her and moved. Did he hook up with another woman after leaving her? Living together as a married couple when you are not married is fornication, and is a sin. Living together while married to another is adultery, which is a sin. The divorce and re-marriage would be acceptable if her legal husband ran off and has cheated on her. If he never cheated, but just left, the Bible says they should leave the door open for reconciliation. If you will fill in the gaps, I will try to answer your question using scripture. Divorce and re-marriage is one of the most difficult situations people face, and it is something that is not always easy to give cut and dry answers to. The Bible gives us instructions, but each situation varies, so I need to know a few more details. Thank you very much! As far as I know he didn't have permanent or serious relationship with any woman, however he had "hook-ups" with different girls, there were about 6 of them,..My sister had only friendly relationship with another man, no intimacy or kisses, and it was after she found out her ex husband has been "dating" or I don't know how to call it the 3rd woman... Whether it is a sin or not comes down to whether or not her husband cheated on her. If he did, she is free to get a divorce and to re-marry. Do you know anything about the guy she is seeking to marry? Has he been married before?
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Post by frienduff on May 26, 2020 11:56:04 GMT -5
But I say unto you that whosoever shall put away his wife and marry another commits adultery against her and whoever marries her commits adultery . Save for the cause of fornication . As the WORDS of JESUS , these words RING ETERNAL . And as such NO MAN can change , nor alter , LEST THEY DO IT unto their own destruction . Adultery is adultery . And as it was said OF JESUS , no matter that we are in the year twenty twenty and the times have changed , HIS WORDS DO NOT . That serious it is and pual knew it . THEREFORE is she be married to another man while her first husband lives , SHE WILL be called an ADULTERESS . and mark my words , ADULTERERS have no part in the kingdom . SO unless the spouse DIES or unless fornication was involved . IT IS ADULTERY . AS THE WORDS OF JESUS , I TOO SHALL PROCLAIM THIS . though i be hated by many for doing so , IT IS from the love of my heart i do remind .
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